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September 22, 2005
We Have a Winner!
The international competition of who-can-send-Ari-snail-mail-first is officially over and we have a tie! The illustrious Ilana Wolfe, my older sister, came in at the same time as China-veteran and Wes-track alum Morgan Philbin. A close second (by around 12 hours) was the new university-administrator and Beantown resident Lauren Budd. Come visit and I'll treat you all to the finest meal 5 yuan can buy :) I actually had my doubts as to whether I'd ever receive any real mail given my lack of a true mailing address, but lo and behold it worked! I suppose three weeks isn't too bad given that it is traveling across the globe. My compliments to the postal system on both ends. Thanks to all who participated though. I suppose I can now open up the international competition of who-can-send-Ari-baseball-highlights-on-DVD-first competition...
I had my second language lesson today and boy was it a workout. My tutor really pushed me and I appreciated it. I can now successfully say numbers, times of day, days of the week, and a couple of other random things. As it turns out, my tones have been okay so far, but my pronunciation skills have been lacking. I don't know what it's called, but the u with the diacritic mark over it (the umlaut) is killing me. My mouth simply does not want to make that sound, but I'm working on it. In concurrence with the old adage that when it rains it pours, I now have contact info for a couple of other tutors, after I struggled forever to find one. Apparently it is the expat way to try out a few until you find one you really like, so this weekend I will be meeting up with #2, a grad student at the university next door. Her name is Cherry and she has entertainingly awkward English. Sounds promising...
One of my friends and co-workers has been after to me to play tennis with him for the past few weeks so I finally obliged today. I think I was asking for it when I told him at the outset that I really enjoy tennis (true) and that I play (barely true). So for the first time since gym class with Coach Coursey back in senior year of high school, I picked up a tennis racquet. I wish I could say that I staged a major Andre Agassi-like comeback, but that would be a lie. We ended up playing doubles with two other teachers and while I wasn't embarassed, I definitely got worked around the court quite a bit. I hit a number of forehand winners which was satisfying. Unfortunately I also hit an almost equal number of backhand shots that went straight up or behind me. Oh well. It was actually really fun though--I think I'll play again soon. The only annoying thing is that the court is right out in the open by the student dorms and I unwittingly drew a serious crowd just by playing. Not much I can do about that one though.
On a more serious note, Steven and I held our "English Corner" free-form conversation session today in which any student could show up and chat with us. As per the precedent apparently set by Melissa and Sonja, the two PiA-ers here last year, we had it out in the courtyard of the academic buildings on a very pretty little bridge. My side of the conversation was pretty tame as several students asked me about applying to American colleges, but Steven had a slightly more interesting conversation. One of his students asked him if he had any black friends and he responded with a yes. The students on his side were somewhat surprised and told him that they are all scared of black people. This is the first time I've heard it in such a direct way, but sadly, it is not the first time I've gotten that impression from the Chinese.
What I don't know is the true source of the fear. I'm guessing that some amount of American media infiltration is responsible, but it has to be more than that. Did an African or African-American commit some type of heinous crime here? I tend to doubt it, at least nothing that a Chinese had not done already. So what is it? This is an issue that I would like to explore further because I think it's indicative of an overall racial tension in the country. While the government would like people to think that everyone is treated equally and that no one is discriminated against, that's just blatantly untrue. At this point we are well aware of the various minority groups around the country that do not get the same opportunities in school, occupations, or religion. I get the feeling that anyone who is not Han-Chinese is generally starting out with a couple strikes against them before that at-bat even starts. Whatever it is, I am very curious and would like to find out more.
On a less serious note, Steven and I made a major purchase yesterday and coughed up the dough for a couch. It's not exactly a luxurious Italian leather foldout, but it should do the trick for anyone who wants to crash with us (not to mention making movie-watching more pleasant). We have a nice sized "sofa" here already, but it happens to be of the traditional-Chinese variety meaning it's all wood. I think our gluteus muscles will thank us for this one. The process of buying the thing was pretty painless, but figuring out how and when they would deliver it was more of a challenge. Or perhaps I should say IS more of a challenge since we don't actually have it yet. It was supposed to be here this afternoon but I got a call on my cell from someone speaking top-speed mandarin that apparently said it could not be done (or so Steven translated). Check with me at 7:30pm tomorrow night and I'll let you know if we need to go crack some skulls over at the Park & Shop.
As if I needed more to do, I managed to locate all four seasons of 24 on DVD and now I'm screwed. Those of you who watch the show know what I'm talking about. Those of you who don't, I highly recommend you check out season one. Just don't do it when you have anything to do for about four or five days in a row because I promise you will be unable to turn it off. A.C.-sorry buddy. Looks like I'm going to have to do seasons three and four in your absence, unless you want to take off a week of work and head over here. Let me know--I'll wait for that.
Otherwise, I'm trying to figure out what to do for my week off at the beginning of October. Anybody want to rally for a party in Hangzhou? Yangshuo? Let me know.
Posted by awolfe at September 22, 2005 10:03 AM
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ok bud, I give up. Wtf is 24? I never heard of it.
dad
Posted by: dad at September 22, 2005 1:02 PM
I lost the who-can-send-Ari-snail-mail-first competition??? Damn. All that training and preparation for nothing...
Seriously, something *should* be arriving any day now if it takes three weeks to get there...
Posted by: Sarah G at September 22, 2005 4:27 PM
I entered the mail competition too and seem to have lost. I am very upset! keep checking the mail for something from me too.
Posted by: mom at September 22, 2005 8:00 PM
Having a good time reading about your life in another world. Happy to hear your tush will feel better now that you have a new couch. Don't forget to wish your sister a Happy Birthday.
R
Posted by: Roberta Seitzman at September 22, 2005 10:29 PM
Great fun reading about your exploits! Joey (and Sabrina) are totally hooked on 24 so I know of what you speak. Shame on your father for being so out of current culture that he doesn't know. As for baseball, while we were in Myrtle Beach, Joey kept abreast of Yankee happening on MLB.com. They have a "Game Day" section where you get the play by play only slightly delayed. Figured if you have access to the internet.... The timing will probably be brutal. Anyway, thanks for the fun of reading your blog.
Posted by: Lorna at September 23, 2005 9:39 AM
And what do I get for winning?? Don't give me any of that "my undying love and affection" bullshit that mom gives us. . . Just kidding, mom. Do I win a free Chinese beer in December?? A crash course in Mandarin (which will be fluent by our visit)? This inquiring mind wants to know.
Posted by: Ilana at September 24, 2005 12:22 AM
Oh Ari, how are you ever going to get anything done with 2 seasons of 24 to watch? I feel for your students!
Posted by: Lauren at September 24, 2005 11:06 AM