It says something about me (most likely something less than positive) that I have decided to devote my second post from Xiyi to alcohol and drinking. For years, I have heard stories about rural Chinese banquets and the sort of drinking that goes with them. "This isn't normal drinking," people tell me. "People in rural China drink in ways that you can't imagine." It seems that most people who have studied or lived in China have at least a few war stories about baijiu. Up until today, I did not.
This afternoon, several teachers from the school in Xiyi invited me to eat dinner with them and a prominent family from town (whose son is also a student at the school). Eager to be shown off and (more importantly), treated to a free meal, I accepted the offer. At exactly 4:50 PM I sat down for dinner in one of the Xiyi's finest restaurants. It wasn't long until I was faced with an important decision. The server distributed cups to our table and I was asked whether I would be drinking baijiu, beer, or orange juice. This is an important moment--it is difficult to switch to a different drink once the meal begins. I was feeling brave and curious and didn't have any plans for the rest of the night. I took a small cup and asked for the baijiu.
At this point, it would probably be best if I explain a bit about Chinese drinking manners so you understand the pressures with which I was faced. Here are a few rules:
1. People, particularly the host(s), will toast other people. You cannot refuse to drink if someone offers you a toast. Depending on your chosen drink, this means a cup of beer, a swig of orange juice, or a shot of baijiu.
2. You must respond graciously if toasted. This means holding your glass lower than the person doing the toasting (a sign of respect in Chinese culture), finishing your entire drink, and offering your earnest thanks for whatever wishes the toast-er offers with their toast.
3. If you choose to toast other people at your table, you should subsequently toast every other person who is more "important" than the first person you toasted. Messing this step up by toasting a low-ranked person to start can result in problems later.
I knew about these rules going into the dinner and was confident in my ability to manage my alcohol intake. What I didn't count on, however, was people's excitement about drinking with the foreigner. The word was out after my third or fourth toast: the foreigner is drinking. After I had toasted nearly every person at my table, a man from the table alongside mine clapped his hand on my shoulder and "invited" me to join his. These new people were determined to test me. I later learned that one of them was the local "brand rep" for a special brand of baijiu. I drank almost continuously for another forty-five minutes until mercifully the host of the party called for a final toast. I walked out of the restaurant a bit drunk but still well within my normal range. The party goers congratulated me on being hen lihai -- very tough -- and suggested that I rest.
So, lessons learned: First, the warning that I had heard so many times before -- that one cannot stop drinking baijiu once one commits -- is indeed legitimate. Refusal is not an option. Perhaps more importantly, though, I learned that rural Chinese drinking is nowhere near as intense as some people make it out to be. I weigh less than 140 pounds and was only a moderate drinker in college, yet I was able to keep pace with nearly everyone in our party without becoming significantly impaired. This fact leads me to suspect that the "legendary" drinking ability of rural Chinese minorities is more a creation of travel agencies and tourism boards than actual fact. The shamelessly liberal, liberal arts student in me wants to believe that this characterization is an example of orientalism, that ascribing insane drinking habits to China's rural minorities exoticizes them and makes them easier to trivialize. More likely, though, is that I am over-analyzing.
