I went to a small high school. Less than 500 students in the entire school. For my experiment I sent facebook messages to old classmates. But only, to classmates I didn’t know particularly well. This meant that while all of them would know who I am, none of them would expect to receive a facebook message from me. For the most part I tried to choose classmates who I had never spoken to on facebook at all, even while we were in school together.
So in this case it was hard to get the sample that I wanted since I was restrained by whether or not my old classmates were online or not, but the basic idea was that I would select a few classmates and divide them based on gender and on whether they were older younger or the same age as me.
At first I had trouble getting responses.
However, after a while I got my first few bites. And I noticed a few things. In general, students who were younger than me responded, and did so quickly.
and pretty much anyone who was in my class responded as well (admittedly tho I knew these two pretty well),
and I didn’t get a single response from anyone older than me.
and just for fun here are some extra examples. The one on the left was a guy I met at wrestling camp around 4 years ago. I’ve had no contact with him other than this message I received the other. This gave me a good chance to be on the other side of the experiment which I thought was interesting. The girl on the left was an Au Pair from Germany who I met at the beginning of freshman year. I hadn’t spoken to her since then